I want MORE!
You know, I love women’s spirits. I have been privileged to connect with some incredible women since I started my transformational journey. I see their confidence, vulnerability, determination, and courage. And some are rising out of the ashes of their life to create just what they want!
And one thing I can say about women, we always want MORE. It seems to be our nature.
You want more for your kids, your marriage, your partnership, your life, your business and ultimately for yourself.
Deep down inside most every woman, is a deep common desire…for MORE… and specifically more for yourself.
Now if your mind jumps in and tells you this is selfish, let me encourage you that this is exactly the sequence of how your red hot life works.
You start with yourself and then you spill over to others.
Now most of us didn’t really figure this out early enough in our lives to be practicing this kind of “me first” self care before we had lots of responsibilities.
So now you are faced with the challenge of putting this in place in the midst of your already busy life.
This makes it a little more challenging, but I am here to tell you it is so doable.
The trick is, you may not have had many role models to show you exactly how to do this.
How to really practice putting yourself into the flow of changing, building and intentional growth leading to transformation.
AND you believe….to ask for too much is selfish.
So you throw yourself into serving others for the wrong reasons.
And you have been told to be Super Woman. You can do it all. So you try.
Which leads you right into burnout, confusion, overwhelm and disillusionment.
And from that place when you want to step out and do something new and make your life better you will probably be faced with doubts and fears that you can’t really do it and you probably don’t deserve it anyway.
Changing and expanding into your own huge powerful self is a work in progress and it starts with just one step. Working up the courage to just move in the direction you want to go can get the whole thing rolling. Like pushing a huge bolder down a hill. Getting it started is the hardest part, but once it is moving, watch out below! Now you are on a roll.
And what does that mean in your life? Feeling good, knowing and loving yourself, having a process and plan that works in your life from the smallest detail to the hugest idea. Really being able to handle it all with ease and joy.
Your Red Hot Living Assignment:
With diligence and commitment you can create anything you want in your life. It begins with the desire to change. Are you missing the MORE in your life right now? A few techniques to keep you moving forward to find it:
- Feel your feelings: When something hurts really badly you do your best to avoid that pain. I am not suggesting you live there just feeling sorry for yourself all the time, but if you have resentment or anger in a situation and you hold on to it you cut yourself off from transformation. The negative emotions keep you from processing your real pain. Even if you are justified, holding on to the negatives only hurts YOU in the long run. Getting MORE in your life involves letting go to make room for the gift. Transformation. To be willing to face your feelings and really take inventory of your NOW and how they affect you is a must. If you are ready to start kicking those blocks out of your life you gotta really start kicking! Let go and kick.
- Write it down: Do you have an idea of the negative emotions like blame, resentment, and anger that keep coming back up to you? Can you name them? Take some time and write out the places you know you want to move past. Keeping them inside or talking about them to your friends doesn’t help you release them. They just keep hanging around. Set an intention to bring them into the light of your consciousness and take a good look at what is holding you hostage. Seeing them in writing may be painful but keeping them around and letting them continue to control you is even more painful. It just doesn’t serve you to getting MORE in your life.
- Love on yourself:Digging deep and seeing your road blocks for what they really are is a courageous and emotional process. The gift you get by doing this is freedom. Those stored negative emotions zap your body of energy and fill your mind with fodder for ongoing mind chatter full of accusations and victim thinking. By simply calling them out you begin the process of making room for MORE in your life. They are taking up precious space inside you. Imagine how you will feel filling the spaces inside you with joy, love, and purpose instead! That feels much better doesn’t it?
Remember to love yourself for being honest and kind. That is what we want from others. Honesty, kindness, and love. And you know how it feels when someone lies, betrays, or is unloving to you. Horrible. So don’t do that to yourself. Being honest and authentic first to yourself will attract the same right back to you!
There is always MORE for you in life….regardless of your current circumstances, your struggles, or your past.
Reach out for your MORE…it’s waiting for you.
Colors to lean on while you are going for MORE:
Yellow: The personal power and self confidence color.
Red: The courage and passion color
Green: The no work color. Just receive it.
Want Support: Are you ready to ignite your true passions and embrace your divine purpose? I would love to connect with you for a FREE Red Hot Living Discovery Call and look for ways to get MORE in your life. On this call we will get real clear about the best next steps you can take to move you into your Red Hot Life. Simply send me an email at cindy@redhotliving.com and we will schedule a time to connect that is good for both of us.
