I am a western girl! I grew up in West Texas and have real cowboys in my family! My great grandfather homesteaded each of his children a ranch and one of those huge ranches is still in our family. I spent vacations and summers riding horses, rounding up sheep, goat, and cattle and watching out for rattlesnakes! It was a fun time of hard work and beautiful sunsets.
Along the way in growing up I got the message: “I am not good enough” That core belief caused me to make lots of mistakes and blow up parts of my life. I worked so hard to make others around me happy and believed that the more I gave the more fulfilled I would be. And it turned out the “not good enough” belief blocked me from seeing who I really am. I was just in a continuous cycle of chaos and drama.
All I ever really wanted when I grew up was to have a family. I never saw myself as anything other than a wife and mother. But after 25 years of marriage and 3 wonderful kids I found myself divorced and wondering what to do next. I had no frame of reference to create the life that I really wanted. I didn’t even know what kind of life I wanted. That is when it started. Discovering me. I have spent lots of time digging deep inside myself to dismantle my limiting beliefs, facing my fears and taking responsibility for my part in where I ended up. After lots of tears, hopeless nights, worry, panic, and confusion, I begin to reclaim myself, rebuild my life and discover not only how strong I am but how much I like myself. Now I am finally able to live my life differently.
As I rebuilt myself and stepped out of my mess I gained not only insight but courage. I knew I wanted to light my fire again and live my life red hot. That meant taking risks and being strong enough to follow my heart even when I was scared.
With each breakthrough I had my life began to take on its own rhythm. I started to repeat what I had done the last time and get to the next breakthrough a little quicker. As I paid more attention to the process and the steps I was using I starting writing them down and eventually I had a proven process to follow every time to get me where I wanted to go. I have followed the same 7 steps over and over to get my life to where it is today.
Out of this emerged my Red Hot living formula ™ a 7 step process that takes you from confusion to success one proven step at a time. Each step is designed to give you the tools you need to connect to yourself and the powerful woman you are inside AND to let go of limiting beliefs and pain so you can be successful in all areas of your life, on all levels…physical, emotional, and spiritual.
This is what I want for all women. To experience the joy of being yourself and loving your life. You have the power to become anything you want. Just reach inside and light YOUR inner fire!
Thanks,
Cindy Hudson
